Can I really save my relationship? Becoming a catalyst
Why your relationship isn't the problem
Insecurity and control : relationship baggage
Self-coaching : eliminating your contribution to the problem
Are you a tiger, turtle, elephant, chihuahua, or peacock? Learning your reflexive personality style
Assessing your reflexive personality patterns
Sketching your self-portrait
Self-talk : how to let go of personal baggage
Self-talk step two : stop listening to what hurts you
Self-talk step three : letting go of what hurts you
Sketching a relationship portrait : seeing the whole problem
Creating a relationship vacuum
Working with self + self = us portraits
Coaching each other : risking trust
Putting it all together :follow-through
Love, infatuation, and infidelity
True love, great sex : a self-coaching understanding
The ten essential principles of successful relating.